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I'll endorse the the eye-level lights, the community meals and the common courtesy of adolescents.

I'll add road signs. In France I can set off and follow the signs and they don't peter out in the middle of nowhere the way they seem to do in England. I also like the way you are almost always greeted before you start the real topic of the conversation. At first I used to just launch into whatever was in my mind. My neighbour taught me better, he would shake my hand and say, "Bonjour Madame" before he would begin the conversation. Now I do it as a matter of routine. So much more civilized.

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No, Rabbie, don't be fooled.  That's just a kind of affectionate joshing and batting the ball around a bit.

You know how you are only rude to people who are your friends or how your sister (brother) is horrible until someone else says something unkind about them and then you are defending them to the hilt?

This thread is a bit like that.

Certainly, speaking for myself, I just LOVE living here and I shall be devastated should the time ever come when I have to leave France and go and live somewhere else. 

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Better, is a word I have a bit of a problem with. There are so many differences between both countries and things I like in both and things I don't like in both.  One of the 'differences' I love in France is shops being open until 7 in the centre of towns and cities, I miss that. It isn't that I am a shopping fan, but when I have to, I like to shop early evening.

In the whole of the Rhone Alpes as far as I was aware, there was only one roundabout when I got to France, it should have been called the rond-point de la mort, it was so dangerous with it's priorité a droite. And then they changed going round them to priorité a gauche and roundabouts sprouted like mushrooms in autumn. Hundreds of them and none decorated with art....... either good or bad, not one, so too many roundabouts and very boring.

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[quote user="sweet 17"]

Ditto posters that refer to events that have come and gone yonks ago

Ditto panneaux advertising restaurants, businesses, services where the owners have long retired/died/left town

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................. and SW17 is right.  There's nothing negative about any of this Rabbie - just one of those periodic leg-pulls about the French.

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[quote user="Frederick"][quote user="Cendrillon"]Frederick, IMO the roundabouts are far more artistic than you would have people believe.

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 Agreed ....The gardening ones are great and I take my hat off to them ...

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http://www.flickr.com/groups/rotondes_rotondas_ronds-points_roundabouts/pool/tags/poitoucharentes/

http://deliredelart.20minutes-blogs.fr/archive/2010/03/15/jean-luc-ple-artiste-des-ronds-points-et-pollueur-visuel.html

with luck you might be able to see a few of the roundabouts on the links above.

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[quote user="Rabbie"]I am genuinely surprised that on a forum for francophiles so many of you seem to dislike the french so much. Why live in a country or have a holiday home there if you find so much to be disagreable. Are you masochists?[/quote]

Rabbie - Two things for me - and I have dual nationality. 1. my rose-tinted glasses fell off and 2. the socialists came to power - so I'm off elsewhere, life's too short.

Just a word for those who love the 'bonjour monsieur / madame' preambles in shops and when meeting etc - such 'acknowledgements' are about as sincere as the USA's 'have a nice day!' - they're cultural, habitual and essentially superficial. Nice how 'foreigners' find them endearing though - :-)

Chiefluvvie

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"Just a word for those who love the 'bonjour monsieur / madame' preambles in shops and when meeting etc - such 'acknowledgements' are about as sincere as the USA's 'have a nice day!' - they're cultural, habitual and essentially superficial. Nice how 'foreigners' find them endearing though - :-)"

How astonishing patronizing of you Chiefluvvie.

It is perfectly possible to know all of that and still like it.

And I do.

Hoddy

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[quote user="Gardian"][quote user="sweet 17"]

Ditto posters that refer to events that have come and gone yonks ago

Ditto panneaux advertising restaurants, businesses, services where the owners have long retired/died/left town

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[:-))][:-))][:-))]

................. and SW17 is right.  There's nothing negative about any of this Rabbie - just one of those periodic leg-pulls about the French.

[/quote] Wow if that's positive I might be tempted to top myself when the negative posts appear [:D]
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[quote user="Hoddy"]"Just a word for those who love the 'bonjour monsieur / madame' preambles in shops and when meeting etc - such 'acknowledgements' are about as sincere as the USA's 'have a nice day!' - they're cultural, habitual and essentially superficial. Nice how 'foreigners' find them endearing though - :-)"

How astonishing patronizing of you Chiefluvvie.

It is perfectly possible to know all of that and still like it.

And I do.

Hoddy[/quote]

Jolly good for you Hoddy - no pulling the wool over your eyes then? Do try and restrict personal attacks though - goes against the forum code of conduct - especially as you are a Moderator.

BTW Is everyone on here a Moderator - and can I apply?

Bonne journée ! :-)

Chiefluvvie
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[quote user="Chiefluvvie"][quote user="Rabbie"]I am genuinely surprised that on a forum for francophiles so many of you seem to dislike the french so much. Why live in a country or have a holiday home there if you find so much to be disagreable. Are you masochists?[/quote] Rabbie - Two things for me - and I have dual nationality. 1. my rose-tinted glasses fell off and 2. the socialists came to power - so I'm off elsewhere, life's too short. Just a word for those who love the 'bonjour monsieur / madame' preambles in shops and when meeting etc - such 'acknowledgements' are about as sincere as the USA's 'have a nice day!' - they're cultural, habitual and essentially superficial. Nice how 'foreigners' find them endearing though - :-) Chiefluvvie[/quote]I have never said France is perfect. If I thought it was I would have moved there years ago[:)]

I was mislead by the OP who I thought was enquiring after the the subset of things that France does better than the UK and not "a lets take the p*ss out of France". 

I am cursed with a touch of "Aspergers Syndrome" syndrome which means I tend to take things very much at face value. This may explain why I posted earlier as I did. Apologies to anyone I may have inadvertently offended.

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I am in awe of their picnics, of the kind produced at sporting occasions.

Groups of mates carry cold boxes stuffed with bottles of wine and cider, whilst the others follow with their boxes containing pate, cheese, cold meats, tomato's and butter. The children carry the loaves.

I get out my plastic bag containing my cheese and pickle sarnie then stand back and watch while the women plaster the butter onto the bread and stuff the baguette's with cheese, ham and pass then around the group. The men meanwhile pass the topped up plastic cups of wine to everybody.

My picnic is over 10 minutes after 12, whilst the French ones continue until 2pm.

Apologies for any mistakes in the text. The cursor seems to object any upward or backward movement.

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Ribbing yes....... and you should hear what french people rib me about, all their comments about les anglais. My friends love nothing better than taquine me, about the EU, my french, english food, english style......... you name it ...........and most of them have never crossed the channel.

This thread is perfectly OK.

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Chiefluvvie is absolutely correct, in that the acknowledgements used when French people meet strangers are not endearing but a formality they are taught as a child, in the same way Americans say have a good day. So whilst we Brits might find them endearing in fact they a taught way to greet and say goodbye, that the French use automatically without thinking.
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