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Could someone also tell me how much I have to pay out to sell a house. I have just been reading the Connexion newspaper. It says something about a new law saying each house must have a diagnostic done on electricity installations. Do I have to get a termite, woodworm survey done. I have lived in the house for three years, having renovated it, and having an electrician rewiring . I assume a termite survey was done then. Sorry, but I dread the selling bit. I want to go home because I am on my own with no family here, and feel quite lonely;

I have decided to sell and move back to UK. What seems the best way to do this? I always advise people to buy through a notaire as there will be no agency fees. Do agents though reach a larger public? Thank you .

when I became a pensioner last year I decided to make a little folder with all the info my dear sons may need when I die. I have also put away money for my funeral . It's the least I can do. I can't think of anything more horrid than parent dying and have to get them disposed of quickly in a foriegn contry. I have found this useful, and acknowledge it comes from Anglo Info, Death & Dying in France Information on what to do if someone dies in France and how and where to report the death. Also how to arrange a burial in a French cemetery; a cremation, and where you may scatter ashes. Plus how to repatriate the body of the deceased to their home. In the event of a death of a family member, friend or relative in France the first thing to do is to contact the local doctor who will certify the death and issue a medical certificate of death (certificat de décès). If the death has occurred in suspicious circumstances or it is that of a stranger it should be reported to the police (Tel: 15). The death must be reported to the local town hall (Mairie) in the locality in which it occurred within 24 hours. A relative or formally appointed representative usually registers the death. This can also be carried out by undertakers.  If the death occurred in a hospital, retirement home, prison or other institution, then it will be reported by the institution. In case of violent or suspicious death or a suicide it is necessary to contact the local police. If the doctor who certifies a death is satisfied that no suspicious circumstances exist and the death was due to natural causes no inquiries are held. However, an inquiry is held when the death occurs in a public place or when foul play is suspected. In such cases the responsibility for issuing the death certificate and burial permit lies with the Public Prosecutor (Procureur de la République) at the local high court (Tribunal de Grande Instance). Reporting a Death When reporting a death at the registry office a number of documents need to be presented: Proof of identity of the person declaring the death Identity card or family book (Livret de famille) or marriage or birth certificate of the deceased Medical certificate of death issued by the doctor or police A certified copy of the entry - a death certificate (acte de décès) - is usually issued immediately if all necessary details are available. No fee is charged for the medical certificate or for the registration of death.  Death Certificate The death certificate (acte de décès) provides information on where and when death took place but does not indicate the cause of death.  Once the death is registered, the town hall will issue a burial permit (permis d'inhumer) indicating the time and date of death. Burial may not take place in the 24 hours following the death. Cremation A cremation should be authorised by the commune of the place of death. Approval is granted if the desire for cremation is stated in a will or in a non-legal document such as letter written by the deceased, or if the closest family member (spouse or partner) requests it. It usually takes place in the crematorium closest to the place of death although a body may be moved if a different location is requested by the deceased family or by them in a letter signed pre-death. Dispersal of the Ashes Following cremation of a body, the urn will be given to the family. If the family agree or if stated in a will, ashes may be divided between family members. Crematoria are also able to store the urn for a limited period (usually three months). If the ashes are to be sealed in a monument or tomb, approval by the Mairie is required. Otherwise ashes may be scattered without formal permission on privately owned land, at sea or in an outdoor environment such as mountains or forests.  Note: it is forbidden for ashes to be scattered in a public pathway, road or river (which is considered to be a public "path").  Most cemeteries and crematoria have a Garden of Remembrance available for the scattering of ashes.  For the legal decree relating to funeral ashes from LegiFrance: Click here (in French) Burial In France, burial (inhumation) without a coffin is prohibited. Burial in a commune's cemetery is authorised by the Mayor. It must take place from 24 hours to six days (excluding Sundays and public holidays) following the death. The departmental Prefect may issue a waiver if there is a problem meeting the burial deadline. A burial may be organsied by a funeral parlour or the immediate family of the deceased.  Documents required are: burial licence burial certificate issued by the commune in which the death occurred While there is a variation between communes, place in a cemetery, the "concession" can generally be reserved for a period of 10 to 99 years. When a family is unable to pay the fee, shorter periods of five to six years are made available free or at reduced cost. It is recommended that request for burial be made at Town Hall of the intended commune of burial as soon after the death as possible.  Within three months of the burial, the grave site must be covered by a concrete slab. Following that, a decorative tomb stone may be erected. Information on the procedure of a funeral home from AFIF (Association Française d'Information Funéraire): Click here Burial on private ground Burial may take place on private property with the permission of the Prefect of the property's department. Certain conditions apply and the burial on private property must have been requested by the deceased (in their will).  The person making application to the Prefect must supply: proof that a burial on private property meets the wishes of the deceased a plan of the property (showing burial location and proximity of neighbours) a geological/hydrologist's report approving the location (underground water and other soil factors) death certificate doctor's certificate of death burial certificate from the commune of the place of death Repatriation of a Foreigner Repatriation of a body to their home country requires the help of the relevant local embassy or consulate. Consular officials can assist in having the remains returned, in obtaining appropriate documentation and in inquiring about French exit requirements. A relative or a formally appointed representative must instruct a funeral director in France or the home country of the deceased for a body to be repatriated. If the deceased was insured it is necessary to contact the insurance company so that they can make the necessary arrangements. If there is no insurance cover, funds for repatriation or burial will need to be met by the family. Insurance may varies, but accommodation and travel for relatives is usually covered. The length of time required for the repatriation of remains can vary greatly and is determined by a number of factors including the cause of death and location of death. When death is the result of natural causes, remains can be more quickly repatriated. When death is the result of a crime, a suicide or an accident, repatriation of remains can take much longer. A body being repatriated will have to be embalmed. The passport should always remain with the deceased and travel with the body. Note: Recent changes to flight security means that many airlines are no longer prepared to carry coffins. 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 "It is a very good idea for all those of us who are not religious but who are interested in nature." Odile, even "religious" people like me think it's the best way forward, as we too are interested in nature. If you think about it. Many many graveyards both rural and suburban are wonderful nature reserves already. I think there will be a career to be made out of green funerals. I have looked into it here in France, but the powers that be seemed quite horrified. As in UK, eco funerals and weddings are now doing well. I don't think you can get a cardboard coffin in France yet. Certainly not in Chef Boutonne.

Thank you for that. I have taken several funeral services at french crems. Then have sat for an hour whilst the cremation takes place and have then been given the ashes for the family. Can you imagine how awful it must be for say, a wife to have to sit and wait in the crem, hear all the furnance noises and then have the urn given to you. The family have often taken the remains back to uk. My one friend has three urns at home and finds comfort from them. The staff at Le Pyramid crem in Niort,are very courteous, but also very intrigued by the cremation culture of the uk residents. They try their hardest to accommodate someones wishes, but it is different. I wonder how they intend to police this; My friends urns are very pretty, and are on the pine dresser. One is more likely to mistake them for a tea caddy.;;;I suppose that itself could cause a problem!!!!

I am sure I have read somewhere that it is now unlawful to keep Urns with your loved ones ashes on the mantle-piece, or within the home. How anyone knows if beyond me. Can anyone tell me if this is so. It would be recent legislation if it it. I have a friend who has several urns, and is a little worried.  

Can anyone tell me where I get papers for a mutual agreement divorce from, the one when we both just say yes no problems. I keep putting it off. Now that we are good friends it seems a good time. All we want to do is sign. No money, property, anything!  

Quillan, get better soon. I really don't like this sexist man flu lark. If someone feels ill they feel ill whether man or woman.

I have just been talking to a very gentil woman I know about this subject. "My dear," she said. "One piece of advice, never trust a man with testicles!" I'm not at all sexist, but it did make me laugh.

No I am not taking it personally. I am worried I am turning into one of the guilty parties. I know I have a quick fuse.

This week I was rude to a fellow forum user, he had been a little rude to me too. I also have been using  another forum for the over 50's, but have stopped doing because it it full of forum rage and bitching. Recently my husband (seperated) has also accused me of abusing him in emails I send to him. He is very sensitive. I would put it on par to a wifely nag, he is so annoying. I do accept though if he considers it abuse, its unnacaptable. Why is there such bitching on all forums. What is this "forum/email rage" I assume because it's easy to be that way to a screen, when you don't know the other person. I felt very angry at what someone wrote about me on here, that I called them something rude back. Though if I was face to face I would have probably still have said it. It just seems more unacceptable on a forum. what do others think?   I used to have some road rage in UK and put two fingers up to some bad motorists, until my Bishop told me quite rightly, it wasn't becoming for a priest to do that. So I did the blessing sign instead, which would have peed me off more, if I had been the recipient.

Tonight as a sat by my roaring fire I have had a very strong smell of sulpher coming from it. Not had it before. Why have I got it please and what should I do about it. I have only burnt wood on the fire.

I would like to apologise for being rude to Ron on the forum. I had a fit of "forum rage". It is not usually in my nature to be so rude, and in future I will keep my angry thoughts to myself.

Yes that fine Ron, but you are still a ***

Sorry Mrs H but if you cannot even explain to a Notaire or Maire the reason for asking for the form to be signed by them then its really about time you became more proficient in the language of your adopted home.  How does your father get on with completing his French tax return if you cannot speak any French?  I think thats rather rude Ron. Hereford asked for advice not criticism

Super U have a special offer for 5 euro's a day or so it says. Thank you for replies

Can any reccommend a car hire firm to take a car from dept 79 to UK and back for a week or so. Is it very expensive. I don't really want to take my little old car but would like to do some shopping in UK.

I have been using this on my three cats for some time. I find no problems with it;

Le document ci-joint dùment rempli please.  I sent off a form in September promising on my honour.............to say I received a pension from UK. Thay have sent it back and want me to send the above. I don't know what it is. thank you

My lemon has spikes just like that.

Hi Krusty Drinking my hot chocolate, putting on my liberty bodice, then wynciette? can't spell, PJ's, then chastity belt, wifes scold, and going to bed. Care to join me, there may be a bit of room in between hubby and me! Bon Nuit 

Ernie, the bickering is awful. I suppose I should be flattered that I am being chatted up, especially as I have my picture as my avatar! Well it is for over 50's eyesight failing ect. . I like this site. It feels like my family. I have used this site for eight years and only ever had one argument. That mainly due to my pig headedness, grunt........grunt

I don't know if I can use their name. I've only been using it for two weeks. I think I might stop. Lots of PM's from men, some pms very risque to! Does anyone else use it? Not like this friendly forum. I've had abuse, invitations!!!!, there seems to be some very nheadstrong people on there ;

I've had this argument with people for ages. I love going to UK and looking around the supermarkets. So much choice. If it"s that bad in Paris think what it"s like in rural France. As for the tinned food, ugh.