I wonder if you can win on this. Think about it like this: A foreigner arrives, buys a property which is not for living in permanently, only as a Holiday home, and then starts to put everybody's backs up by trying to change arrangements which have gone on happily for ages. I can see that it is irritating for you, but have you thought about how you appear to the locals? I don't know about France, but I know it wouldn't have gone down well in rural parts of the UK