Darren, I don't think you have to do anything so drastic as move to France to escape. Just get out of Ashton - quick! It was my home town and every time I go back it scares the hell out of me. Honestly, there are parts of the UK that are lovely :o) But seriously, I agree with the others. It's a big move for the kids, so go easy on them and be prepared to offer lots and lots of support. Sara