Hoddy Posted September 5, 2012 Share Posted September 5, 2012 Ian I read your announcement with disbelief; largely because I didn’t want it to be true.Over the years Deb’s generosity of spirit in sharing her knowledge of how things work in France has been invaluable to a large number members of this forum.When it came to matters of opinion she always expressed her ideas in a clear and thoughtful way and gave careful consideration to the thoughts of others. Through all of this, including what must have been some very trying times, she never lost her sense of humour and her posts on the forum were always a pleasure to read. She will be sorely missed.Hoddy Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PaulT Posted September 5, 2012 Share Posted September 5, 2012 Just signed on to see how things were going and so very sorry to see this new thread.Whilst this is a very sad day for the forum members for you Ian a devastating one for you.You will always get a warm supportive welcome here should you continue to post.I am one of the lucky ones who actually met Debs on her Itchy Feet tour.Best wishes Ian and my thoughts are with you.Paul Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gardengirl Posted September 5, 2012 Share Posted September 5, 2012 Ian, thank you so very much for coming to tell us the sad news. Deb always gave such good and helpful advice, which many on here and elsewhere benefited from.Some of us were lucky enough to meet her on the Itchy Feet tour last year; we were at a lunch gathering and continued afterwards back at Rose and Grey Man's home. We all had a lovely time and we were glad to have met her. A very special lady, who was much-loved and will be greatly missed.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
britgirl Posted September 5, 2012 Share Posted September 5, 2012 R.I.P. lovely lady. The world is now a sadder place. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NickP Posted September 5, 2012 Share Posted September 5, 2012 So sorry to hear this news. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DerekJ Posted September 5, 2012 Share Posted September 5, 2012 Ian. You have a closing message on your post which reads "Wishing Deb were here beside me."I'm sure that all her friends are wishing that she were here with us as well.I'm so sorry. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sid Posted September 5, 2012 Share Posted September 5, 2012 I'm so sorry to hear this sad news. It has all happened so quickly. Sincere condolences. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sprogster Posted September 5, 2012 Share Posted September 5, 2012 Ian, my deepest sympathies on your loss. I note on Debs profile that she is the number one contributor to this forum, and thought having pole position was somewhat fitting for a motor sport fan.A very brave lady who will be sadly missed. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Antonia Posted September 5, 2012 Share Posted September 5, 2012 I am so sorry.I don't normally post on this forum but am a long time lurker. I never met Debs but I still feel as if I've lost a friend. She was a very special lady. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CBC65 Posted September 5, 2012 Share Posted September 5, 2012 My deepest sympathy at Deb's passing, I hope you can take strength from the warmth and compassion flooding this forum.I never expected to be so saddened by the passing of someone I had never met. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Loirette Posted September 5, 2012 Share Posted September 5, 2012 We don’t know what to say that hasn’t already been said by others. Debs was a truly special person. As a couple you complemented each other perfectly. You know that we will be thinking of you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Alan Zoff Posted September 5, 2012 Share Posted September 5, 2012 Wish I had met her. Feels as if I had.Much sympathy. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SC Posted September 5, 2012 Share Posted September 5, 2012 [quote user="Alan Zoff"]Wish I had met her. Feels as if I had.[/quote]My sentiments exactly. She must have been very special to have touched so many lives. Such a pity that we didn't meet Debs at the classic. Everyone is thinking of you both Ian.Steve Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Albert the InfoGipsy Posted September 5, 2012 Share Posted September 5, 2012 If there was one person I respected and trusted on this forum it was Debs. Can't say anything else. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stan Posted September 5, 2012 Share Posted September 5, 2012 My sincere codolences to you and your family. It was only a couple of weeks ago that she answered a query for me on this forum. I did not know her, but am saddened none the less. Take care. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gemonimo Posted September 5, 2012 Share Posted September 5, 2012 Such sad news. Debs was a wonderful caring person with such good advice to so many. She really will be missed. You are in my prayers. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
5-element Posted September 5, 2012 Share Posted September 5, 2012 I am too choked for words as I kept hoping for a miracle. Ian, reading the last line in your message, I so wish she was beside you too. The only comfort is to know she died peacefully, and with you. I did feel she was a true friend, as she was so true to herself, spoke from the heart, and she gave so much, to so many. Now wishing you great courage and forbearance. My deepest condolences. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rose Posted September 5, 2012 Share Posted September 5, 2012 Ian - I am so sorry to read this news, I considered your lovely wife my friend and the world is a lesser place now she's not in it.We'll be thinking of you... take care Mr Coops and please don't be a stranger xx Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Russethouse Posted September 5, 2012 Share Posted September 5, 2012 Ian, I’m so very sad and sorry to hear this news, even though we have all been expecting it.Looking at your signature I can only say that we wish you had Deb sitting beside you now too, and if Clair’s Dali Lama signature quote is correct “Share your knowledge. It is a way to achieve immortality” then truly Deb will have achieved it, there isn't anyone who was more generous with her time or effort in researching in order to assist others, and many have every reason to be very grateful to her over her part in the fight against the changes in health care provision. Even when she disagreed with another forum member she always respected their right to hold a different opinion, and did it with good grace and a sense of humour.Hopefully it goes without saying that if any of us can do anything at all to assist, either side of the channel, don’t hesitate for a moment, just ask. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Val_2 Posted September 5, 2012 Share Posted September 5, 2012 I am so very sorry to hear this terrible news. When my husband who was exactly the same age died suddenly last year, Deb contacted me with such moving words of comfort that I have never forgotten her. To her husband Ian, the coming days will be like a terrible dream and you will find you cannot accept any of it but it will begin to ease as each day passes, take it from me as I am experiencing that now. You will get very bad days at first and trust me when I say that it does begin to get better and you must get on with your life however hard you think it is now. If you want to ask me any questions about arrangements etc please feel free to PM me but not e.mail as I have changed my provider and its not registered on here yet. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pip24 Posted September 5, 2012 Share Posted September 5, 2012 Sorry to hear the sad news. Coops was a highly respected person and will be sadly missed by all, as a person, and her contributions on this forum. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Frecossais Posted September 5, 2012 Share Posted September 5, 2012 Some people have an easy ride through life, others do not. Deb didn't, but her sense of fun and laughter, her respect for other people and the love she felt for you, Ian shone through her words. It was through these words that I knew her even though we'd never met.May she rest in peace, and may your love for her help you in these dark days.Ellen Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Clair Posted September 5, 2012 Share Posted September 5, 2012 Ian, Whenever you feel like you need someone to turn to, just look behind you. We are all here to support you, no matter what. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Théière Posted September 5, 2012 Share Posted September 5, 2012 A very sad day for this forum and worse for you Ian, I hope you receive all the help you need to deal with the formalities from the folk on here.It's been a terribly rough ride for you in the last 4 years but you both showed great courage and spirit in the face of adversity. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Keni Posted September 5, 2012 Share Posted September 5, 2012 As said by Clair, we are all here for you, just as she was for us. We will all miss her thoughts, comments and help. Remember, you are part of this online 'family', and like all families we argue, laugh and cry together. Our love and thoughts are with you.Keni & Chris. x Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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