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Maryd1900

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  1. Thanks Llwy....  and thanks to all your replies... I shall read them all and go to all the links you have kindly provided.  Funny you should suggest 'short in staure'... He is only very little and as I say.... basically a joke to all who know him but his wife.  To her he is a physical, economic, social and emotional bully. As for telling the department; I cannot.  It would be very easy to identify this chap if I told you the department and you lived here.   I would love to expose him but it is not my right to do so, it is her's and I must continue to respect her wishes fpor fear she will stop confiding in me and then have no one to turn to when she finally does find the courage so to do. Of course there is nothing to stop you guessing his name (and keeping it to yourself).  I know for a fact that several people I know use this site and they will know the 'gentleman' of whom I write. M
  2. This is not the most pleasant of subjects with which to begin 2007 but then it is never a particularly savoury topic. A friend of mine who has been married for 2 years and who lives in France is suffering the most wretched abuse from her husband.  She regularly sports black eyes and is often incommunicado for long periods. She is on her second marriage and confides in me that she feels this marriage MUST work out.  Her husband is an odious little chap whom the entire community dislikes.  Her parents and grown up children completely ostracise him and everyone knows what is going on.  Everyone but she can see this is going to get worse. Does anyone know of any expat support group this poor woman can go to?  She is very proud and is terrified of upsetting her husband.  He is a retired ex-military and both of them have the illusion that he is respected in the community. The irony is that she owns the house, the car etc and could kick him out in a second if only she had the support to show her this.  I dare not say a word as I fear she would stop talking to me and close the only route out she has at the moment. I am terrified that one night he will seriously hurt her.  I have seen him drag her from a party by the hair and heard much worse. If there is a support group or even if you have an idea how I can help my friend please contact me privately or on my email. Thanks
  3. Sorry Dick, I am new to this and had not realised you'd got the reply. It is important to note that Equifax etc do not remove the listing.  They will advise you to get in touch with the company who made the report.   If these people refuse to play ball remind them of the data Protection Act and that it is offence to knowing record inaccurate data. M
  4. Get in touch with Equifax and Experian (This can be done online).  They will provide you with copies of credit status.  If there are any mistakes you may contact the companies involved and require them to remove the data.  The file will then be updated.  There is not a 'Blacklist' so to speak... About 90% of all companies including Creit Cards, Vodafone etc use these two credit reference agencies. In addition to this, if you have a concern about any data held you can write to the agency and ask them to hold on file a brief explanation from you about the point in issue.  Then, whenever someone does a search this explanation MUST also be shown to them.  I hope this helps M
  5. I dropped a box of crunchy nut cornflakes this morning and in a fit of rage kicked it across the floor....  Doers this make ME a serial abuser?
  6. I was reading this thread and I do hope my own input elswhere is not in breach of the code.  Could you tell me if it is so I might alter things which may lead to anyone discovering the identity of this person. Thanks Mary
  7. Hello, This is our first post on the site so am a little unsure where to post this.  I hope this thread is OK. My husband and I wanted to find a place where we could discuss our concerns and amazement at some of the antics of some of the so called IMMOBILIERS or agents in France. We understood that the activities of these people were strictly regulated.  It seems there are strict regulation but only a handful of people follow these rules. We lived partly in Bergerac and were putting our holiday home up for sale a few months ago.  It is only a small place but represented a substantial investment for us. We have had it for almost 20 years but are getting a bit too creaky and tired to make full use of it anymore. We looked around for an agent and using the net very quickly found a site (I shall not name it of course) local to Bergerac so it seemed the logical company to use..  The site was produced well and it seemed to us that the person who owned it was highly professional.  How looks can deceive. The woman on the site presented a plausible figure.  She claimed to have considerable experience and knowledge of the area.  Her French was very good indeed ans on first sight she seemed OK. Within 10 minutes of meeting this person she had begun to tell us how me must not trust ANY French Estate Agents, in particular she mentioned 3 in the area, basically slandering them.  She then told us to be very wary of various Notiers and to only use the ONE she specified.  My husband has spent 40 years negotiating and dealing with people and his alarm bells immediately began to ring.....  I wanted her out of my house and did not even offer her  a cup of tea..  Ahe really was utterly nasty.  This was an exceptionally unpleasant person. Not satisfied with the attack on (what I later discovered were) people with whom she had a working relationship she then began to bad-mouth other English Agents.  Her attacks were exceptionally vitriolic and plainly there has been a considerable amount if fighting in the area over house selling. The woman valued our house at 110,000 Euros.   We were amazed as we felt, although small, the property is very well presented in a lovely area. When this person left we decided to make a few investigations.  We have been back and fore to Bergerac from our home in Kent for many, many years and know many people in Bergerac.  As soon as we began to ask questions the truth began to emerge.  She is known by several French Estate Agents as the English Witch...   They maintain a relationship with her because, although they know she rips them off and bad-mouths themm she does bring them business they otherwise would not have.  They also ALL assured me her 'Agency' days are numbered. Now don't get me wrong..... This person never specifically claimed to be an IMMOBILIER, nor did she claim to be RICS or indeed have any single qualification pertaining to the valuing and sale of houses in the UK OR in France.  She just presents herself in such a way that prospective sellers will think she has.  I guess if you go to a hospital and see a man in a white coat with a stethescope around his neck you may well presume him to be a Doctor..... you may be wronmg of course and they can claim not to have presented themselves as such! She has one qualification, she speaks French and to be fair she does so rather well. How is it that someone like this can operate WITHOUT A PERMIT as an agent for selling houses?  She is entirely unprofessional and is damaging the good name of other Brits in the business. I would be most intersested to hear of any one else's experience at the hands of so called Estate Agents here in the Dordogne.  I am compiling a dossier which I shall present to the appropriate authorities over there.   Not just on agencies in Bergerac, on all. If your message has names etc please don't post it on the public site, this is why I have avoided specifics about the woman's agency. Finally .... the good news is that we asked for a second valuation and this also was from a British company based in the Gironde, oddly enough run by a woman who also speaks escellent French.... But this time she was licenced..  They sold our house for 245,000 Euros  within 2 months.  They WERE licienced, they WERE qualified and they did not spend 80% of thier time slagging off the French or other agents (Though they had good cause to I suspect). These  unscrupulous and unskilled cowboys (cowgirls) could have cost us a fortune... sure I would only have paid her 'Special' Rate of 2% but I would have lost considerably more....! My advice.  ALWAYS ASK IF THE PERSON WITH WHOM YOU ARE DEALING IS LICIENCED.  ASK TO SEE PROOF.  It is not easy to get a licience in France and by having one the person WILLL be qualified.  DO NOT accept that the person works for or with others who have a Licience.  Why pay for an extra link in the chain!? Mary Davies
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