I have been traveling around and working with both American and French girls/ladies. What I can notice there is a big difference between the way of thinking, we can't forget that french are latins as well. I am not refering about the term "latin" that the americans use to say that people are from mexico or spain. I am talking about people who use languages that came from latin - the real latins. If you look at italians, spanish, portuguese, french, they are more or less alike, they enjoy relationships for itself, and americans want to get married. They (americans) start relationships thinking about marriage. Of course I am generalizatin a lot here, but this is my point of view. In a relationship, americans went to familie's house for holidays, french like to go for a romantic trip. People is just different.