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Wen,Have you tried to talk to the parents of these boys ? You need to knowif the problem comes from the relationship between your son and hiswould-be friends or from their parents. Be aware that french peopleusually know nothing about your way of life. We tend to see the Britsas hypocrite and to be wary at first. This can be overcome in 83% ofthe cases (remember : le Pen obtained 17 % in 2002).If your son really feels excluded, you should talk to the principal,conseiller principal d'education and/or professeur principal at thecollege.btw : where are you in France ? My daughter is 13 too and she likes english ... and boys !
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I never learned English at school. Just went to London for two yearsand learned from scratch. I'm still bad but who cares ? I' can't standlessons anyway ...Find a job, watch TV, play football or bridge, read newspapers, go tothe café (first pernod helps, the following ones don't). Maybe buy abook about gramar. Don't be inhibited and ask the french people tocorrect your mistakes. It is discouraging and exhausting at first butit does work. Well ... at least you can see by yourself how it workedfor me :-)
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I would not build because it is slow, complex, stressful and often more expensive than buying.As for the notaire, I meant your own (french) notaire, not the same asthe seller's. There may even be a third notaire involved when they actas estate agents (http://www.immonot.com/).
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From a french perspective, charente is not seen as dry nor really warm! I was there for Christmas and I found it cold and wet. But I leave inMontpellier (Hérault) and British or Irish people may have a diferentview. In my place it is dry when cold and warm when wet ... but it canbe really cold (-10°C at night) OR really wet (200 mm/sqm/day =floodings).If money is not an issue, I would rather advise the Pays basque, the Roussillon or the Cote d'azur.Hope this helps
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Sandres are more like perch than like Pike. They originate from theDanube region and are quite common in calm rivers, large ponds andlakes all over France. People raise them in Brackish lagunas in theCamargue region.C'est très bon cuit au four avec du vin blanc et des oignons !
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This is true. French kids easily visit/invite each other for anafternoon or the whole week end but are rarely allowed to wander in thestreets.
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There are a lot of things which can go wrong when buying here inFrance. I'm am in the process of buying a forest and there manyproblems withseveral people claiming property for the same piece of land, legalpapers which suddenly "disappear" from the Mairie, etc. My first adviceif you are not used to our system is to avoid buying on auction. Iwould also avoid buying a plot and building a new house or buying inCorsica. And don't rush. Maybe rent for a year or two before byuing sothat you can learn to know the area. In my place for instance(Hérault), you would have to be carefull with floodings and this is notso easy. Another good reason to wait is that in some places, the pricesare starting to go down.From experience, I would say that the key point when buying is to haveyour own Notaire. Never ever go sign with the seller's notaire alone.The trick is that if you come with your notaire and the seller with hisown, the fees will not be higher : The Notaires will simply share thefees. The tradition is that it is the Buyer's Notaire who will do mostof the work and you will eventually sign in his office. And do not askyour notaire to negociate or find your house : Your own notaire shouldnot have any interest in the transaction and the always help you andonly you. Even so, Notaires often make mistakes and having two of themchecking each other is safer. And if you are not happy with yournotaire, just make it clear that you may consider go find another.Once you have a Notaire you can trust, you can approach a seller in thefollowing way : visit the house several times but never show him youreally like his house. Talk a lot with him about every possible subjectso that you start knowing and (hopefully) trusting each other (I wouldtalk for days !). Then, make a writen offer with a short term ( maybe 3days) and with a "chèque de banque" to YOUR Notaire (3000 to 10000euros) and ask for a writen reply. This way of doing sounds respectfuland serious to the "traditional" french. there are so many ways for thebuyer to breack a compromis de vente before the final transction andthis is a waste of time and money (surveys have a limited validity) forthe seller. This is why he would possibly accept a lower offer from aserious/trustful buyer. He may refuse and return the chèque to you,accept the offer (in which case his is legaly engaged), or make andcounter offer.An estate agents would do this for you. Sometimes they really help youlowering the price, sometimes it is your interest to try to bypassthem. A few are entirely trustfull but this is not the rule. Always askfor their fees and try not to pay more than 7% ( I paied 10% for ournew house last month but I was VERY happy with the final price). Do notbase your offer on the seller's price but on your own estimate. If theprice tag is too high, don't even make an offer and do not hesitate tolook upset or take it as a joke (Looking upset is the french nationalsport after all and there is a lot of theatre in this business). For aHouse in decent shape, don't bother making an offer less than 2/3 ofthe seller's price.A few tricks about the "Frais de Notaire". These are not only theactual Notaire fees but also, and mainly, taxes. A first way to reducethem is to pay part of the price "au noir" = "sous la table" (I don'tknow how to translate this and I'm not suggesting you to go that way).Don't do that if this is not going to be your main house and you expectto resel before 15 years : you would pay another tax called "sur lesplus value". Another way if an estate agent is involved is to make sureyou pay his fees (not the seller). You will be requested to sign amandat with the agent and the official price will be exclusive of hisfees. Last trick : you don't have to pay any frais de notaires for thefurniture left in the house such as the cuisine equipement. In otherwords, whatever you buy, the furniture of the cuisine is always 10000euros worth as the taxman will never come check it ;-). Hope this helps(sorry but there are tricks I won't write !). Daniel.
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No problem for long term rental if you have a decent financial income.As for your daughter, the cultural shock might be OK but the Aulnay/ StJean d'Angely area is ruraland if you come from London or some other big city, she could getbored. I suggest you visit the school with her and trust her feeling.
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Yes, but feeling home-sick is understandable. I used to live in London and I found myself praying for a saucisson.Be honest : how about a good pint of bitter ? Not from a can or from"the gaz pipe", I mean the real stuff ... you know what I'm talkingabout, don't you ?Now the bad news : these things are addictive and if you leave France,you will miss the saucisson just as much as I miss the bitter. Regrets...
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My parents live in the Poitou and lots of british bought houses thereover the past few years. From our (french) view, those who learn theFrench and try to get involved in the community seem happy. But we arenot optimistic for those who can't communicate in french after twoyears or try to recreate some sort og mini-UK (from the pub to thechurch, school).En résumé : you don't need to forget cricket to learn playing pétanque, do you ?
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Hey Quillan, if your idea about vineyards in France is really that theyshould be sold as building plots, may I suggest that you keep movingsouthward : sell your property and buy some other place. My suggestionwoul be somewhere in the Sahara or the antarctics.
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Why not having your own vineyard if not too large ? I don't think youwill earn much money with it but you can enjoy running it and keep ourcountry alive. Yes you should be cuting now, at least this is what myneighboors do here (Hérault). It is hard work and you need to learn howto do it. Ask the neighboors to see if they would teach you. If theydon't, watch them with binoculars while they are cuting, follow them tothe café and use british humor until they get very angry... or startsmiling.If you really want to get seriously involved, you can follow propertraining at the local Lycée agricole or some other place. Ask thechambre d'agriculture for more information. Hope this helps. Daniel.
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