I know exactly how u feel. We have a house in Brittany and have put ours here in the UK on the market. As soon as it sells we are moving to our little french country retreat with our 3 children age 10, 7 and 3. So although i feel it the best move for them i know it's going to break my heart watching them settle in, but i suppose its going to get worse before better and they love it out in France, all that space and freedom, i've even bought a horse here to take with us when we go. Its a big and brave step and i keep telling myself it will be ok. I've found alot of helpful and friendly people who live very near to where were moving so that should make it a bit easier. Good luck and keep in touch to let me know how your getting on, we can exchange probably very similar notes! Cary