[quote user="gardengirl "]Please don't write messages to me like that Scooby. I can only charitably assume you didn't read my post. I have known about such problems from an early age and have taught children with huge problems over many years, as I intimated in my post. I didn't go into specifics, and don't propose to do so, although I'm sure I could trump your aces if I did.[/quote] The reference to you, GG, at the start of the post was only because you started your post 'Scooby'. The 'you' in my post was a general and plural 'you'. It's sad that you can trump my aces. Life can be very unfair and cruel.